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Principle Five: You can judge the wisdom of any society by the investment it makes in its children

with Steve Chalke's guest and expert witness

Dr Celia Sadie

You can judge the wisdom of any society by the investment it makes in its children: The importance of taking a trauma-informed approach to supporting children.

It was back in the 1980s. My wife and I, with a lot of help from friends, had just set up a safe house to provide accommodation for young people who had been rejected or exploited by those who should have loved and cared for them. But as the house filled with seventeen, eighteen and nineteen year olds, I was in for a shock. There was rarely a ‘please’, a ‘thank you’, a smile or even eye contact from any of our residents.

And that’s not all. To help make the house a home, we’d kitted it out with wonderful artwork and a huge TV in the lounge. Yet soon after our first residents arrived, everything disappeared. All stolen and sold by the very young people we had worked so hard to create an Oasis for!

I was angry. What was wrong with these young people? The problem, however, as I slowly realised, was mine not theirs.

If those wounds had been broken or disfigured limbs, I would have readily compensated for them. But because they were psychological, emotional and internal; born of neglect, abandonment, fear and rejection; at first I didn’t recognise them at all.

The old world, binary thinking around morality would describe these dysregulated and traumatised children, young people and adults as selfish and morally flawed. It is too easy to assume, for instance, that all violence is a selfish, immoral, outrageous act of personal power and defiance, and that punishment is the most meaningful way to correct the problem.

The reality is that these children are almost all victims of circumstance who have ‘appropriately’ adapted to the dysfunctional world they have been forced to endure. They don’t decide to explode, but their capacity to manage their emotions is limited. Something triggers them and they are spun out of control. Only after the whirlwind has passed can they regain a sense of conscious awareness and realise the gravity of the thing they have done.

Our assumption is that children are born with resilience built in. ‘Don’t worry. They will be OK. They will bounce back. They’ll be fine, they are only young. They'll get over it’, we say. But it’s not true. Children are not resilient.

This means that if we are going to make real progress in our support of individual children and families at a micro level, we’ve also got to recognise and grapple with the fact that trauma-creating bias takes place at whole-community and societal levels. If a system is truly trauma informed, for instance, it will also be anti-racist. Which is why the fight against racism, Islamophobia, homophobia, transphobia, gender inequality and the marginalisation of other people groups, along with the recognition of neurodiversity and the impact of disability are so important. That’s also why the reform of all our welfare and social systems is essential, as we work to bring to an end policies and methods of working which either implicitly or explicitly carry with them prejudices and biases, or the seeds of family or community fragmentation.

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You can judge the wisdom of any society by the investment it makes in its children: The importance of taking a trauma-informed approach to supporting children. In this episode Steve’s guest and expert witness is Dr Celia Sadie. In part one Steve sets out his fifth principle, in part two Dr Celia responds.

“This is my conversation with my guest and expert witness Dr. Celia Sadie, clinical psychologist and Director of Care and Wellbeing at Oasis Restore, England's first ever secure school based in Rochester, in Kent. We talk together about Principle 5: You can judge the wisdom of any society by the investment, it makes in his children. It was brilliant talking with Celia, because I know that she understands the revolution that we need to go through if we're to give every young person in our society the opportunity they deserve and allow them to reach their full potential.” – Steve Chalke

Dr Celia Sadie

Dr Celia Sadie is the Director of Care and Wellbeing at Oasis Restore – England’s first secure school. She is a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and a specialist in adolescent mental health and psychological therapies. Her career has spanned adolescent in-patient and youth custody settings, as well as work in private practice and as an expert witness. Dr Celia has trained, published, and presented her work widely in national and international settings, including contributing to the Lammy Review (2017) and Youth Justice Conventions. Much of her work has focused on the development of trauma-responsive services and on the particular challenges faced by adolescents in custody and those who work with them.

About this podcast series

This podcast series, and the accompanying book by Steve Chalke sets out ten tried and tested practical principles for ‘how’ to develop joined up, cost effective, community empowering work, gleaned from the hard-won experience that sit at the heart of the mission of Oasis over the last four decades. Steve talks to 13 expert witnesses who help him bring his book to life with their own thoughts and lived experiences. We believe it’s time for a radical reset. It's time for A Manifesto for Hope!

Steve’s book is available wherever you buy your books but we recommend you buy it from Bookshop.org an online bookshop with a mission to financially support local, independent bookshops.This book is also available on Audible.

The Manifesto of Hope podcast is brought to you by Oasis. Our producer is Peter Kerwood and the sound and mix engineer is Matteo Magariello.

The Manifesto for Hope

If we are going to build and fund an integrated and holistic system of care for children, young people and their families; one which is aligned and attuned to the real needs of those it seeks to serve, we have to reimagine society together.

We therefore call on central government to establish a new social covenant that:

  1. Replaces the ‘political-cycle-is-all-that-matters’ short-term-policy-making approach and the financial wastage that accompanies it, with a cross-party written commitment to an agreed set of core principles, to be honoured over a twenty-year period, in order to reimagine and rebuild our expensive, but suboptimal systems.
  2. Creates a new generation of visionary ‘cross-system’ government leaders and officers, responsible for delivering innovative, joined-up systems with a specific focus across education, social care, healthcare and mental health, housing, policing and justice, in order to connect the policies and practices that are supposed to protect and nurture every child and young person.
  3. Builds a deepened level of trust between government, local authorities, funders, private and voluntary agencies, and local neighbourhoods by establishing a model of collaboration and mutual accountability around our vital community-building services, designed to empower ordinary people and whole communities.
  4. Acknowledges the central role of the voluntary sector – local charities, grassroots movements and faith groups – in a more imaginative, more collaborative, less bureaucratic, more transparent and mutually accountable approach to community development.
  5. Designs services ‘with’ local people rather than ‘for’ them, by listening hard to the people they are seeking to serve, thus enabling individuals and whole communities to become change makers and take responsibility for their own lives and neighbourhoods.
  6. Realigns funding priorities to create a new focus on longer-term partnerships, with more core funding, and avoids the negative competition for resources by local organisations, which by its very nature has eroded trust, created confusion, wasted time and resources, and fails to deliver the desired outcomes.
  7. Reimagines the anchor role education plays in order to end the culture of exclusion from our schools, and develops a greater focus on the issue of childhood adversity, the nurture and support for vulnerable children and the extension of special educational needs support, to enable every child to succeed.
  8. Facilitates and invests in the essential but neglected role of an effective youth service, to work in tandem with schools, in a relationship of mutual respect, in order to create more holistic care for all young people.
  9. Recognises the urgent need for education, social care, healthcare, housing, policing and justice policy and practice, to catch up with our twenty-first century neurological and psychological understanding of child and adolescent development.
  10. Promotes a national conversation around the recognition that external transformation is never enough and that the impact of poverty, disadvantage and exclusion, can only be addressed in a deep and sustainable manner when, ‘the right of every child to a standard of living adequate for the child's physical, mental, spiritual, moral and social development’, as set out in the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, is vigorously pursued.
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